Asking permission — Foreign languages, 4–6 years
Learn a short question for checking whether you may do something, take something or go somewhere.
May I?
Asking permission means checking before you act. A short question such as “May I take the ball?” gives the other person a chance to say yes or no. It is different from simply taking the ball, because the choice is shared.
Why ask first?
A toy, chair or door may belong to someone else, or another person may be using it. Asking first prevents grabbing, interrupting or walking into the wrong place. Every community has ways to show respect for shared things and other people’s choices.
Asking for a turn
One child is riding a scooter. First, wait where the rider can see you. Next, use the new-language question for “May I have a turn?” Pointing at the scooter can help. Listen to the answer: if it is yes, wait until the rider finishes; if not, choose another activity.
A question needs an answer
A common mistake is to ask permission and then take the thing straight away. This is reasonable when you are excited or think the answer will be yes. Pause after the question, look at the person and listen; asking opens a conversation, not an automatic yes.
Where it helps
You use this when borrowing a toy, opening a cupboard, joining a game or entering a room. The question is useful at home, in a playground and when visiting another family. In another language, it helps you take part while respecting the people around you.
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